Supporting the supporters

When someone you love is struggling with suicidal thoughts, you want to help - but who supports you?

At STS Community, we understand that caring for a loved one experiencing suicidal ideation can leave you feeling overwhelmed, frightened, and alone. While most resources focus on those in crisis, we recognise that the people providing support—family members, friends, partners—also need guidance, understanding, and a safe space to process their own experiences

Our Mission

At STS Community, we're committed to filling the critical gap in support for those who are caring for loved ones with suicidal thoughts and ideation. Our mission encompasses both immediate support and long-term systemic change.

Provide Direct Support

We offer a safe, understanding community for anyone supporting a loved one through suicidal ideation. Whether you're a parent, partner, sibling, or friend, you'll find people who truly understand what you're going through and resources tailored to your unique challenges.

Connect You with Professional Resources

We provide clear, accessible information about professional counselling services and support resources available in your area. Because while peer support is invaluable, professional guidance is often essential for both you and your loved one.

Advocacy in Schools

We're working to raise awareness that children and young people living with family members who have suicidal ideation need specialised, professional on-site counselling support. A well-meaning teacher or school staff member isn't enough—these young people deserve trained mental health professionals who understand their specific trauma and needs.

Healthcare System Reform

We advocate for GPs and healthcare providers to be more proactive in recognis ing and supporting patients who are caring for loved ones with mental health challenges. The supporter's wellbeing directly impacts their ability to help—it should be part of every treatment plan.

Our Vision

A world where no one has to support a loved one through suicidal ideation without proper resources, understanding, and care for their own wellbeing.

Infomation and support

Mind

A national mental-health charity offering trusted information, helplines, local support, online peer-communities and campaigning for better care and understanding.

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Relate

A national UK service helping individuals, couples and families improve communication and relationships through counselling, online toolkits and guided sessions.

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Samaritans

A 24/7 UK charity offering confidential emotional support by phone, email or in-person for anyone struggling, plus resources for those worried about someone else.

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Hartwell Strategies

A private practice providing one-on-one coaching, counselling and interactive training sessions aimed at helping individuals reduce anxiety, navigate life changes and improve wellbeing.

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Counselling Directory

A UK-wide directory of verified counsellors and therapists, offering easy search by location or online, plus free articles and self-help resources for mental health support.

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Citizens Advice

A UK organisation providing free confidential advice on family, debt, housing, work and legal issues - practical help that supports the broader circumstances of someone in crisis.

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Connect with others

Join the STS Community

Join our community — a safe, understanding space where you can be heard and supported. Connect with others who truly understand, share your experiences, and offer encouragement to those going through similar challenges. Together, we create a warm, compassionate environment where every voice matters and no one has to face their journey alone.

Join the community

Ways to get invovled

Supporting the supporters starts with connection. There are many ways to get involved and make a difference—whether through sharing your experiences, volunteering your time, or helping us raise awareness.

Connect

Join our online community to share your story, listen to others, and find comfort in knowing you’re not alone. Together, we build strength through understanding and empathy.

Engage

Volunteer with us or take part in our campaigns to help create real change for those supporting loved ones through suicidal ideation. Every action, big or small, makes a difference.

Inspire

Help us spread hope. Share our message, start conversations, and encourage others to prioritise the wellbeing of those who give so much of themselves to others.

Together, we can create a world where every supporter feels seen, supported, and valued.